Saturday, December 31, 2016

Happy New Year!!!!!2017 Here we come!!!!!!!!!!!

I wish everyone a safe, happy and very bountiful new year.....we damn sure need it! As for me I will be sleeping.....why do you ask? Because, I have been up all night, trying to figure out how to make YouTube videos, and add things, and subtract others, until when I hit the bed honey...... its gonna be 2017 when I wake up! All food is cooked...the kids will be happy and masquerading around my house...but Mommy Wanda just wants to curl up, and have a long talk with Jesus in her sleep, so I can wake up refreshed and anew......and back on my work grind.

I will post the two videos I worked on today...they mostly sum me up in a nutshell....Paterson,New Jersey girl,born and raised, writing, blogging,creating art and designs crowding my head...and all in between! When you have a bipolar mind, a smart mouth, a pulse for sex, a caring,open heart and a love for come up with me....and thank God there is only one "ME"lol

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Thursday, December 29, 2016

The tweet heard around the world!!!!!

I am just flabbergasted at the latest, ridiculousness going on right now on Twitter. We are not outraged by poverty,education,animal rights or women not getting paid the same as men.....ohhhhhh noooooo something far worse is happening....Steve Martin paid a tribute to Carrie Fisher in a tweet and was so inundated by hate that he had to take it down.....Are we for real??????

Here is what one man has to say about it, that I think sums up the whole thing in a nutshell!

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Wednesday, December 28, 2016

"Hallelujah" your almost gone 2016 &"Fare The Well"-You Sucked!

I know a lot of good happened this year, but there have been so many deaths, until it just made the whole year suck.....I just cannot wait to see 2017....This year has got to condolences to every family who lost someone no matter what the reason....I cry for you truly I do......I can only think of Lord help us and Hallelujah...........

RIP to Leonard Cohen!..the song is "Hallelujah" and one of my favorites his lyrics are angelic and magical and  as I sit here just thinking of everything eyes can't stay dry.

My solemn advise is to love your family and friends while you can...tomorrow is not promised...and I mean that literally....Fare the well 2016!-------( You suck and we never want to see you again)!

”Fare thee Well” by God…aka Chuck….2016-RIP...Please!!!
Supernatural! Season 11-Episode 20

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Monday, December 26, 2016

Stop Lying!!!!!!!

Oh my goodness I am so sick of so many people lying all the time. It is a sin and a shame to be a liar. If this is you or someone you know please tell them ....or please stop. Its one thing to exaggerate the truth to protect you or someone you love from harm, but letting it flow pathologically, is just crazy. This is short but not sweet...stop fucking loved yourself....keep it real or just do not say shit...It doesn't hurt to just shut the fuck up!

Listen...Facts....I am not rich...I am not better than anyone...I make mistakes...I am bipolar....I've went through marriage...I've went through divorce...I have been homeless...I have been on welfare...I have been sexually abused... I have been mentally abused....I lost loved ones...I've lost friends...I love my kids but sometimes they get on my last damn relationship is all over the damn place with bullshit,love and in need of much forgiveness, truth, moving in and on;when we argue, we even block and unblock each other and we are on the same damn bill....I block family members and friends...I can be crazy...bitchy...nice...sweet...and yes I still love the Lord with all my heart...but do not use social media as a platform to be a liar.

People in this world are really struggling, they are looking for real advice to make it in life and not some false facade of a life ....They need real help FINANCIALLY and/or how to make their own money...They need real friends who will stick by them through thick&thin, and not hate or talk about them behind their backs...They need real relationships where people do not cheat... do not not lie about being LBGTQ...ain't divorced...ain't with someone....ain't on drugs.....ain't married...ain't deceiving them, and ain't using them or screwing them and someone else's head off..... and last but not least REAL CHRISTIANS to tell them.....You know what I am not perfect....I did not always have...I do not wake up yelling Hallelujah everyday...I go through tough times too...I am not just farting rainbows and thinking sunshiny thoughts every moment.

Be Mothers...Be Fathers...Be family members that tell the truth, to each other and your kids....It is so much lighter, when you just keep it real, and give the heavy load to Jesus....seriously!

My main issue is, I do not give up on people that lie....I still forgive...I still love....I do not care what most people do to me, I still stick with them like glue....I ride or die for those I love and care about...not because I am desperate,stupid,infatuated,needy,dumb or dramatic... but because my heart has God's love which is unconditional....I cannot help that....I am not gonna let anyone send me to hell because of having an,evil, angry, grudge filled flesh wants to rip some peoples heads right off their shoulders, curse them out, tell them they are dead to me and move on....but if I said I could be like that....I would be lying to you...and to myself!

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Sunday, December 25, 2016

Merry Christmas

Well even though my saga continues with my very unwelcome *holiday friend ugh..... Christmas has been quite merry indeed. I cooked a nice dinner of lamb and vegetables, I bought cake and cookies, the tree looks awesome, the kids are enjoying their toys, as Christmas music is playing from"The wandasncredible Channel" liked video playlist (oh yes I did advertise my YouTube channel in the middle of a post lol...its really playing in the background though...LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE).....later we will watch every freaking Christmas movie ever created, we will eat dinner and then the real Christmas story begins.

I always read from the bible about how Jesus was born because despite my shortcomings (and I have many), I believe in the birth and death of Christ, I truly believe he would have done it all just for me (especially because I need it) !!!

Here is the link for the online bible....but I will post the words as well...Merry Christmas!

Luke 2:1-20New International Version (NIV)

The Birth of Jesus

In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. (This was the first census that took place while[a] Quirinius was governor of Syria.) And everyone went to their own town to register.
So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.
And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. 12 This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”
13 Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,
14 “Glory to God in the highest heaven,
    and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”
15 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”
16 So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. 17 When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.

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Friday, December 23, 2016

That Time Of The Month

I feel so *unbothered today...with a giant cup of anxiety...sprinkled in things that need to be jumping around like they are at the circus...and I am in my pajamas...dreading the thought of getting up...and hoping my bed doesn't look like a crime scene.

Ladies....its Christmas...there is so much going on....not including the whole holiday swing feeling that I should be having....instead it feels like my vagina is gonna fall out....I want everyone dead and I just want all the cookies of the!!!!!!!!

So with that being said ....I think I am gonna get some coffee....make sure I am clean as a babies some of my stash of Oreo's (don't pretend you don't have a stash of something from the kids) and a bowl of mint chocolate chip ice cream....take two Aleve....catch up on my show " The Exorcist" and let everyone have at it for the day.

*(kids slang because I am so hip)

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Tuesday, December 20, 2016

Did Grandma ever have an Orgasm?

Quick answer...No!

Long answer................Throughout my years, I have found myself very fond of older women, not in a sexual way but with a feeling of reverence. For centuries, we have been considered the lesser species, not being allowed to do anything that men could do without be ostracized, demoralized, beaten or even killed. So in my 3 year span as a Certified Nurses Aide, I got the pleasure to talk to a lot of them...and yes this topic came up.
To my surprise, most who of course were now grandmas or great grandmas had NEVER had an orgasm! In fact they felt the word orgasm quite repulsive and against the word of God. Will you find me going into scientific data, research, statistics or other conclusive evidence in this post? Hell No! I just told you what they told me and we are going to talk about *that.(*I won't leave ya hanging though, I will post some articles to read at the end of the post)

I will not give names but one very sweet old lady confided that her husband we very well endowed. He just used to thrust herself inside of her and before you knew it she was pregnant. Year after year she was pregnant until was forced to get a hysterectomy and could never have kids again. After five kids, and her sexual complaints, he left her and she had NEVER had an orgasm. This lady was the typical little old lady you would see everyday. The coffee stockings, the hair net, the grandma smell with the very covered up outfit. But enough about that, did you hear me? Never not once did she have an orgasm, she thought it was just her place to please her husband and not receive any pleasure in return....and if you want to get into race...she was no racial stereotype stuff please!

Believe it or not, I heard this story over and over again, in different nursing homes, from ladies of every race, creed and color, who had between 2 to 10 children! It was astonishing that these ladies had never enjoyed the pleasure of what God intended, they were married, they were devout but there is a reason why that pleasure factor is there, the devil didn't put it why were they not allowed to enjoy it?

As I stated earlier, most were told that sex was a dirty word, or it was just for procreation, for pleasing there husbands or worse it was ungodly and that is just not true. And even though we should just blame men and get this post over with, they probably did not know what they were doing or should be doing to you either so its been one big crazy secret lasting a lifetime.

Honestly, it is not my business to get into whether someone is fornicating or adulterating or married or even delve into the LBGTQ sisters out there lives....but I must confess myself that I had never had one until my 3rd child was *3(*and I was in a new relationship). I thought all the thrusting, yelling, feeling good and imagining was it, until I experienced a brand new rabbit pearl dildo, from a sex party I went to. The feeling was so sensational until having sex without them is meaningless. I had been married, I had previous experiences, and I love the Lord (even though misfires were with everyone else and my first husband twice,removed thank God for divorce) but nope not even close to one...not at all.

I am a 80's baby, so lets get this straight, generations of women have dealt with this and probably still will if we do not get a better understanding of the orgasm. I implore all women who are reading this post to talk about this issue with others your age, read about it. research it, get a dildo if you want and talk about it with your partner. Today is a new day for women where there is so much information and sexual freedom to understand yourself and the ladies of old. 

When my mom was alive I even talked to her about it.....she expressed her lack of feeling much until her and my dad got kinky and explored masturbation (okay the mom thing is gross just because its my mom) and my grandmother who dared not talk about it must have experienced pleasure in her marriages but just never talked about sex or whether they were orgasms or not.

The moral to this whole post is that every woman deserves to feel what we should during sex, men do all the time automatically, so why should we be left hanging?

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P.S. Friends should not let friends have sex without feeling orgasms, so talk to your friends today...maybe not your grandma but hey if your not let this cycle of "mis-pleasure" continue! I have attached a couple of articles that can get you started into the wonderful world of understanding the orgasm.

Sunday, December 18, 2016

A Letter To The Father that WONT PAY CHILD SUPPORT! Josi Denise

Honestly...Truly and Purely as an ice breaker...I searched the internet for something interesting to say to start off this blog. Believe me when I tell you, I have plenty to say, but I did not want to be so blunt ....yet....but I wanted this post to be blunt enough, for you to really know that real topics will be discussed here and not bullshit.

When I saw this and actually read brain said....BINGO! and HAPPY HOLIDAYS! the real world. Most people avoid topics of real conversation or they discuss them so distastefully that it makes you judge them more than really hear what they are saying....

Click the link below....I promise ...your either gonna be pissed or sad....hey you might laugh....cry....take it personally or probably think this post is about you.....Ask me if I give a shit? Nope! I don't!....what I do care about is that this blog topic lets you know the truth....and the truth is --this is not your mamas type of late show!

Here is a sample of the article:

Ask yourself, aside from financial assistance, what else are you doing?
When is the last time you trimmed tiny little fingernails? Do you wake up before the sun rises to make sure your child gets on the school bus? How many hours do you spend each week helping with homework, and are you paid to do it? Are you holding your child’s hand at doctor appointments, and paying the $35 copay? How many meals do you plan, purchase for about $150 a week, prepare, serve to, and clean up after other people on a daily basis? How many nights lately have you been woken up multiple times because of your child’s nightmares? Do you know the name’s of your child’s friends, and how many play dates do you host at your house weekly, going through 3 $5 boxes of snacks in a couple hours? When is the last time you did 5 loads of laundry on a Saturday, paying for the soap and hot water and dryer sheets, and then did another two loads for good measure on Tuesday when a blanket was covered in vomit and crackers? How many days of work have you missed because of your child’s runny nose, and did you get paid time off? Do you know what stuffed animals they can’t sleep without and how they like their apples cut into slices without the skin? How many night lights do you have powered on each and every single night? Do you know how many $39 boxes of diapers and $12 boxes of wipes a toddler goes through in year? When is the last time you bought and baked a birthday cake and wrapped all the presents and paid for all the party supplies?
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Hey Ladies....I am Wanda dba wandasncredible...and this is my mommy greeting. As a family of 4... whose kids Cyber school and as I work from home..I get the sugar...spice and everything nice...with the side of shit too lol.

This new blog will explore some of the many questions of my mind, dealing with everyday life, people, places, and things. Many may call my questioning disturbing....some may even call my commenting within this blog rude or disrespectful.... but in all retrospect ....what I will be talking about.... will be things we either already know...... or questions we all want answered......but don't want anyone to know we think about.

With that being said ....WELCOME TO.......drumroll please......"the wandasncredible late show".......VIEWERS DISCRETION IS ADVISED!!!!!!

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